The wedding ring and the engagement ring symbolize the love of one for the other in a couple. However, there is no established way to wear such jewelry: you can wear them on the ring finger as tradition dictates or try new variations, such as alternating them over time; moreover, it is possible to merge the wedding ring and the engagement ring into a single jewel. Keep an open mind to wear them in the way that best suits your lifestyle and ideals.
Steps
Method 1 of 3: Choose where to wear the ring
Step 1. Wear it on your left ring finger
It is the traditional option that many spouses choose: the rings go on the ring finger of the left hand, ie on the finger between the middle and the little finger. It is up to you to decide in which order to wear them, but usually the engagement ring is worn first, followed by the wedding ring.
Step 2. Put faith first
You can choose to wear the wedding ring first, followed by the engagement ring. Some prefer this arrangement for romantic reasons, because it places the wedding ring closer to the heart, or because it is more comfortable or more beautiful to see on the hand.
Step 3. Move them after the wedding
Some decide to wear both rings on their left hand right from the start, while others prefer to wear the engagement ring on the right ring finger first and then move it to the left one just before the wedding ceremony.
Step 4. Wear them on both ring fingers
If you do not want to weigh down your finger by wearing more rings or you have short fingers, it is advisable to distribute them on both hands, preferably symmetrically, wearing one on each ring finger.
This way you can show off each ring in its singularity
Step 5. Save a ring for special occasions
Keep one in the jewelry box and wear it only during important events. In most cases, people who choose this option wear the wedding ring every day and keep the engagement ring aside. An advantage of this choice is that at least one or two jewels are kept in excellent condition over time.
- Some women find it more practical to wear just one ring, especially if they need to take it off for certain activities such as sports.
- Since the wedding ring is usually simpler, it is often the one you wear on a daily basis.
Step 6. Do what you think is best for you
There is really no right or wrong way to wear rings, on the contrary, the choice is personal and is dictated by daily needs; so remember that you can always mix and wear them in any way you like.
It may help to understand the meaning of each ring. Usually, an engagement ring is a promise of marriage, while the wedding ring is exchanged during the actual wedding ceremony
Method 2 of 3: Choose the Rings
Step 1. Choose a matched set
Because the wedding band and engagement ring are designed to be worn together, they can be made of the same material and can also have a similar structure, with equally complementary style. Choosing both rings according to this criterion is advisable for those who know they want to wear both rings at the same time and would like them perfectly matched.
Step 2. Choose a shaped ring
This is a matching ring set where the wedding band adheres to the contour of the engagement ring's center stone, so they can be worn at the same time without rattling or spinning too much. However, if you wear the wedding band separately, it will look curved in the middle.
Step 3. Choose a whole eternity faith
Although the traditional wedding ring is often very simple, more and more couples are choosing elaborate rings that contain precious stones and exclusive metals such as platinum and which are often known as "eternity rings" due to their more sophisticated appearance; it is an excellent alternative for those who want to combine the simplicity of faith with the beauty of the engagement ring.
Step 4. Stack the rings
This way, you will get a series of rings lined up on the same finger next to the wedding band and engagement ring, or the series itself will replace the ring or band. To get the best look, the rings need to be matched in some way, through stones or similar materials; furthermore, it is advisable to choose them thin enough not to weigh down the finger.
Some choose to create a stacked ring over time, adding a piece of jewelry for any special event, such as anniversaries. Over the years, the result will be more interchangeable rings or wedding bands
Step 5. Weld them together
Go to a professional goldsmith to have the wedding ring and the engagement ring welded into a single piece of jewelry. Many like the symbolism behind this gesture, because it is as if the rings come together in the same way a couple joins through marriage; however, this procedure may not be completely reversible, so consider carefully.
Method 3 of 3: Customizing the Rings
Step 1. Choose the rings you like
In theory, you will be wearing the engagement ring, the wedding band or both for many years, so it is advisable that you choose only the models that you will like over time; keep this in mind and avoid following fads by preferring your basic style instead.
Step 2. Get them the correct size
It is important to choose where to wear them, but it is essential that they do not slip off your fingers, so visit a professional jeweler to measure your finger before purchasing them. Then, test how the royal ring fits - it should slide smoothly over the knuckle, but it shouldn't be too loose.
Be aware that your ring size may change over time or due to certain health conditions such as pregnancy, so try on rings from time to time to make sure they still fit your fingers
Step 3. Have them engraved
You can have a date or words engraved into the metal on the inside of the ring, which is also a way to match the rings without making it noticeable from the outside. Most rings can be engraved, but it is always best to contact a jeweler to do so.
For example, it is quite common for couples to have their wedding date engraved inside their wedding ring; similarly, you may choose to have the engagement date engraved inside the engagement ring
Step 4. Follow cultural or religious customs
There are many different ways of wearing wedding bands and engagement rings around the world; inquire about traditions that may be meaningful to you and choose whether to follow them or not.
For example, in some countries such as Austria, the wedding ring is worn on the right hand
Advice
- If an engagement goes awry, the couple will have to discuss who should keep the rings.
- Sometimes, couples choose to purchase matching wedding bands that can be made of the same metal, follow a similar pattern, or even contain matching gemstones.
