Making a good impression on the girl you have a crush on may seem like a feat, but it's actually pretty easy if you have confidence in yourself and keep calm. You'll find that with a little effort, impressing a girl you like isn't hard, and can actually be fun. Here are some steps you can take to make a good impression on a girl.
Steps
Method 1 of 3: Stay Calm
Step 1. Remember that girls are not that different from you
While it may scare you to talk to girls, remember that many of them share the same interests and aspirations as you.
Step 2. Find something you have in common
- When talking to a girl for the first time, find out about her interests.
- Find out if you have any common interests with the girl you're trying to woo, and come back to them if you feel like the conversation is struggling.
Step 3. Be comfortable
Relax during the conversation. It's the best way to put the girl you're trying to hit at ease, so she'll be relaxed and receptive too.
Method 2 of 3: Limit the amount of time you talk to her
Step 1. Don't asphyxiate the girl you're trying to impress
Talking too much to the same girl can be unpleasant. Make sure your conversation is positive and frequent enough to get her interest without being stuffy.
Step 2. Talk to other girls
This will make you look more desirable and create a more relaxed atmosphere when you talk to the girl you want to impress. It is also a good workout.
Method 3 of 3: Trust Yourself
Step 1. Confidence is extremely important
Girls find self-confident guys attractive.
Step 2. Play around with her
Laughter is one of the best ways to connect with people. Show that you are funny and that you don't take yourself too seriously. A joke can be a great way to flirt with a girl and make a good impression.
Step 3. Flirt with her
Flirting with a girl you're trying to impress is one of the best ways to show her your interest.
Step 4. Ask her out
If you like the girl you're trying to impress and have already adopted the advice from the previous steps, ask her out. If you've established a good relationship with her, chances are she'll say yes.
Advice
- Find an activity that you both do and invite her to do it with you.
- Always remember to smile.
- Be receptive to the signals it gives you. If she seems interested in what you're saying, focus on that part of the conversation. If she seems disinterested, change the subject.
- Be yourself. Don't change to please others. Be confident and you will end up attracting others to you.
- Don't be too confident in yourself, though; it can be counterproductive.
