Are you a middle school girl who has a crush on a schoolmate? He realized you liked him but now would you like to grab his attention more seriously? Read on, because this article will tell you just how.
Steps
Method 1 of 2: Start wooing him
Step 1. Find out if you are only attracted to him for his physical appearance
Before you lose your mind over someone, think about the reasons why you are attracted to them. If you run after a guy just for his looks, you might be disappointed. He could be an idiot, or a liar. First, try to get to know him better.
Step 2. Don't be nervous
If you like a guy you need to step forward and talk to him! Make sure you talk about a topic that might interest them; if you don't keep in touch with him he will lose all interest in you. At the same time, however, don't be too clingy and don't bother him: these are two attitudes that make the boys run away immediately.
Step 3. Get to know his friends
Through them you could also understand if they like you or not.
Step 4. Find an excuse for her phone number
For example, if you have to study together you can take the opportunity to exchange mobile numbers. Or think of an opportunity to show him your phone.
Step 5. If he doesn't have a cell phone or doesn't want to give you his number, communicate through chat or Facebook message
Talk about something interesting, about a curious event, think about something that might interest him and make him participate in the conversation.
Step 6. Don't flirt too much, you're only in middle school
Even a few small signals will be enough to make the guy understand that you like him, you certainly don't want to give him the impression of being a superficial girl. Make him feel special and show him special attention.
Step 7. Everyone gets a crush on it sooner or later, even if it's just middle school
Indeed, it is quite common at your age! Don't worry, if you are friends with that guy, ask him to help you study a subject, even if you really don't need it. If he's not available, you can tell he's not interested in you.
Method 2 of 2: Start with a friendship
Step 1. Try to be friends with him
Get to know him a little, spend time with him and pay attention to the things you have in common. Ask him what his hobbies are and what he likes to do in his spare time. Gradually gain confidence. Let everything evolve spontaneously and don't let him know you have a crush on him.
Step 2. Get close to him, but not too close
As you become more familiar, share some personal stuff with this guy. But be careful that he also behaves the same way towards you.
Step 3. Tell him some secrets and funny jokes
Give him some funny jokes, confidences, etc., find an opportunity to hear him over the phone. Let him start opening up to you too, and maybe start considering the idea of a relationship between you.
Step 4. Ask him if he's ever had a crush
Imagine if the answer were yes and it really concerned you! It could be the perfect way to change your friendship. If, on the other hand, he talks to you about another girl, don't be sad and learn to take a step back. He may change his mind one day: he will probably already have a very good opinion of you, regardless of romantic feelings.
Step 5. Always show your best
As you become friends, the guy may notice how cute, smart, and funny you are.
