Packing is the art of making it look like you have a realistic bump in your pants and pass for a boy. If you are transgender or drag king, this practice is essential. It could also be useful if you need to play a role in a play or just want to have fun.
Steps
Step 1. Decide
Do you want a hard pack or a soft one? Hard packing consists of wearing a fake phallus under your clothes for an erotic game, while for soft packing you simply need to create a bump, which can be done with different objects.
- Who are you packing for? If it's for a mistress, opt for the erotic packing. If it's just for you, try them both.
- Where are you going to go? Hard packing should not be worn in public as it may feel like an erection if not prepared carefully, and if your "package" comes loose and pops out, it will embarrass you in front of everyone.
Method 1 of 2: Soft Pack
Soft packing is a little easier to do than hard packing, so it's a good idea to start with this to train.
Step 1. Test with a rolled up sock and slip it into a pair of tight panties
In addition, you can apply a safety pin to prevent the sock from loosening and stretching along your leg.
Step 2. If you are wearing boxers, pin the sock inside the boxers
Make sure the sock is positioned well before pinning it. Check in the mirror to see if the bump is as it should be.
Step 3. Another effective method to try, if you like boxers, is to use a sports jockstrap to insert a commercial "pack"
Wear pants and boxers as normal and you will be good to go!
Step 4. Use a swim jockstrap
It is exactly the same as a normal jockstrap, except that you can use it, with padding, under your swimsuit (for transgender men: in case you haven't had breast surgery yet, you can wear a shirt or the top of a diving suit). It might be a good idea to wear a skimpy swimsuit over it.
Method 2 of 2: Hard Pack
It's not easy to manage, but it's typically only used around the home, so make sure you get exercise. Getting used to it will take some experience.
Step 1. Choose a dildo
The bigger and harder it is, the more uncomfortable it will be to wear. Choose the one that meets your needs based on what you will need to do and how long you will need to carry it for. Decide if you prefer realistic or unrealistic. It is up to you. If you are going to play erotic play with your partner, think about their needs and desires.
Step 2. Method 1
Grab a harness and the dildo of your choice. Wear it normally and carefully loosen the straps, but not to the point of dropping it. Put your favorite underwear over the harness - baggy boxers would be the best choice if your harness is large. In general, if you take a size larger than you need, the harness will remain more comfortable. Move the tip of the dildo so that it is hidden under the elastic of your panties, then put on your pants.
Step 3. Method 2
Follow the steps in Method 1, but lower your trouser and / or boxer leg down. You don't need baggy boxers in this case, in fact, tighter boxers might even be better in some cases.
Advice
- Try everything at home. Practice sitting, walking, standing, and running to make sure no accidents happen to you. so make sure your padding is secure!).
- An unlubricated condom tied around your packer will protect it from boxer lint.
- You should probably wear men's pants while packing; women's pants are not designed to allow room for a penis. On the other hand, some bisexual men wear women's pants.
- Wear padding around the house to get used to packing, then practice walking and moving normally.
- Should the hard packer ever pop out, you'll find out how to hide an erection, at least until you get a chance to fix it.
- Get a stand to pee (STP) or jockstrap-style harness (so there will be no hindrance when you need to use the bathroom and you can mind your own business without having to take off and put on the packer).
- Soft packers can be bought online or in sex shops. The same goes for hard packers and dildos.
- If your newly bought soft packer is sticky, roll it in starch to reduce the stickiness of the gum (this is because the natural oils in the gum are absorbed by the starch).
- If you wear a belt, it will be easier to keep things in place.
Warnings
- If you have to go through security at the airport, have a psychologist give you a certificate explaining your sexual identity, or keep the packer in your suitcase, especially if it has metal parts.
- Someone might make fun of you or think you are weird. He is just ignorant and uninformed.
- A tight packing or a particularly large hard packer can cause bruising.
- When you want to wash the harness (which gets dirty easily from sweat), use a lingerie wash box so the straps don't get stuck in the spin dryer, ruining the harness.
- If your harness has a metal buckle or press studs, never close them before putting them in the juicer, or they may get stuck.
